they talked about virginity?

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GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE IF YOU'RE 17 AND BELOW!!!!

On 2nd thought, stay..you might as well learn something from here..



In response to drlove's blog post..
here's what i think..

For the guys, not all will care..not all wont care..
some guys, they can still accept the girl even if she's not virgin..
all she needs to do is be honest with the guy..
if the girl's lucky, the guy will say "its okay.."
if the girl's unlucky, the guy sure will end their relationship..

but..just an advise to the girls..
even though the guy said its okay, he might as well take advantage on you..
knowing that a girl is no longer a virgin, the guy might wanna have sex with the girl too..
and when she refuses, he'll go, "you had sex with your exbf, but you dont wanna have sex with me?"
this is when the girl will start to regret..

here's a disadvantage of being a non virgin..
the guys you had sex with,
some will talk about it to his friends..with dramatic twists in the story..saying, "see that girl in that blue shirt? i had her head banging on my tiny dick..and she lost it to me wanting for more.."
some, will stay with you for the sex only..
some, will be playing goody-goody and not talk about it and say to the girl, "what happened on my/your bed, stays on my/your bed, okay?"

if the girl feels insecure about telling the guy the truth,
wait for the right moment..
only tell the guy if he's 100% can be trusted..

girls, even though you've lost your virginity,
you still havent lost your dignity entirely..
yes, by entirely, i meant you did lose it back then when you lost your virginity..

my point on saying that is, if you tell the guy early,
without knowing majority about him..
he might insult you in the end..
the result will be worse, and you'll lose more of your dignity..

that is from one side point of view..
the other side point of view will be all the positives..
where the guy will still accept you and all those lovey dovey shits..

you may say, "this girl is talking as if she knows everything!!"
true..i dont know everything..
but i do know that losing your virginity to a jackass is the dummiest thing ever..
you must have been drugged to agree to have sex with a jerk..

and yes..im a virgin..but i heard and learnt alot from different people..
the feeling of insecurity, worry about getting pregnant, afraid if others will know about what you've done, worry about being a disgrace to your family, nation and all, and worse, being infected by Sexual Transmited Disease..
so think about the consequences before you decided to lose your virginity..
regardless if you're married..then its very ok..